Choosing Cremation AFTER Burial
April 10th, 2018
It is a common assumption that once a body is buried, you have reached the end of the road. As soon as the dirt is packed and the gravestone erected, there is nothing more to be done for the deceased except to visit and leave the occasional bouquet of flowers. (more…)
What to Do When There is No Funeral
April 6th, 2018
Not everyone is grieved in a big, formal way. Although most families hold some sort of memorial service when a loved one dies, there are times when there is no commemoration planned. This might be due to scheduling conflicts, a lack of finances, a recent spate of deaths in the family, or even because it was what the deceased wished. (more…)
Jewelry to Wear to a Funeral
March 23rd, 2018
Because funerals tend to be formal and call for more careful attention to your attire than usual, it makes sense that you will put on some jewelry before you leave the house. A string of pearls, an understated watch, a favorite family brooch—all these things are common to wear to a funeral and can appear very tasteful. (more…)
Small, Effective Ways to Help a Grieving Family
March 19th, 2018
One of the most difficult things about death is the feeling of helplessness that results. Although you probably sympathize with the grieving family and want to do something to help, knowing how to reach out is difficult. Maybe they want to be alone right now. Maybe they are bombarded with offers of help. Maybe they do not know what they need or are too afraid to ask. (more…)
How to Write a Thank You Note to a Funeral Home
March 13th, 2018
When you are coping with the loss of a loved one, some of the most important support you will get does not come from friends or family – it comes from the funeral home staff. These professionals are educated and trained to help you make burial decisions, plan a funeral, and access the support services you need as you move forward with your life. The staff is available to listen when you need it, and often provide around-the-clock answers to all your questions. (more…)
Etiquette for Visiting a Cemetery
March 8th, 2018
Most people know that when you visit a cemetery for a burial, there are rituals and guidelines for your behavior. However, there are also etiquette rules for when you go to the cemetery later on—either to visit the grave of a loved one or simply to take in the ambiance. (more…)
How Much Should I Spend on Funeral Flowers?
March 3rd, 2018
Sending funeral flowers is a common practice in this day and age, but that does not mean all of us have experience with it. In fact, if you recently experienced the loss of a friend or relative and you want to send a floral display to show your regard, you may be wondering how much you should spend. Depending on your relationship to the deceased, the type of funeral being held, and your own personal finances, funeral flowers can cost anywhere from $30 to $800. Here is how to figure out what you should spend on a funeral arrangement. (more…)