Posts Tagged ‘Etiquette’

Should You Take Kids to Funerals?

Wednesday, July 28th, 2010

Funerals, even under the best of circumstances, are a frightening experience. Should You Take Kids to Funerals? When you add in the formal and often austere backdrop of a funeral home and cemetery, the result can be one that is not welcoming to kids.

However, just like adults, children must go through their own process of grief and understanding when it comes to death. And for many children, this means being able to say goodbye and share in the experience of a group of friends and family coming together to celebrate life and honor death. Whether the funeral is in the planning stages or if you’re trying to decide what is appropriate for your family, the following checklist should help you determine if bringing your kids to a funeral is the right choice.

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Appropriate Attire to Wear to a Funeral

Monday, March 9th, 2009

Appropriate Attire to Wear to a FuneralNo matter what creed or culture you follow, a funeral is a somber affair that requires a certain level of conservative dress.  Even the color of clothing that you don for a wake or funeral service can have a significant meaning, especially in Eastern and some Western religions.  Appropriate attire is vital at any funeral of wake, so if you’re not sure of exactly how to dress for a service, then here are a few helpful pointers based on some of the more popular religions and cultures:

Christian Funerals. While it was once required to wear all black for a Christian funeral or wake, now other somber colors have become accepted as part of funeral attire.  However, out of respect for the mourners, clothing must still be conservative, with women wearing dresses that hit below the knee or slacks, and men wear more formal attire like a suit with a tie.  If you’re still unsure of what to wear to a funeral, simply ask what the family of the deceased will be wearing for the funeral, or follow the attire that’s dictated by the creed of the family.  It’s best to err on the side of safety rather than make a fashion statement at the funeral, so don’t pick bright colors, cocktail dresses or any other “fashionable” clothing items.

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